- Some people’s Minhag is not to say Shechayonu during S’fira (some say it on new fruits but not on clothes).
- Those that have the Minhag not to say Shechayonu in the S’fira do not wear new clothes that you say on them Shechayonu, however you may buy them.
- You may buy and wear clothes that you do not say Shechayonu on them (sweaters etc…).
- Some have the Minhag not to wear new clothes even if you do not say Shechayonu on them (for example shoes).
- You may say Shechayonu on new clothes on Shabbos.
- Everyone holds you may buy and wear new socks, tights and underwear.
- S’firas H’Omer is a Mitzvas Aseh S’Hazman G’romo (a time-sensitive Mitzvah, it is done at a specific time) and women are not obligated to keep it.
- However, many do count Sfira as they do other Mitzvos that are time-sensitive even though they are not obligated to, for example shaking Lulav.
- Women may only count with a Brocho if they are sure that they will remember to count the entire Sfira.
- If it is likely that they may forget to count one day, they should count without a Brocha.
The Isur (prohibition) to listen to music in S’fira is only if you are listening to it for pleasure.
You are permitted to hear/listen if it is not for pleasure.
Therefore, in the following circumstances you may listen to music,
· Someone who is hospital or is unwell and they need music to relax or to stay calm.
· You are travelling and need music to stay awake.
· You need background music to help you concentrate while you work.
· To help you exercise.